Your first session
Before, during and after
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Step 1: Before
You write to me, and I reply on weekdays. I send my fee in writing, the paperwork on my own portal, and the address or the video link. You don't need to fill in anything about your health.
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Step 2: During
Fifty minutes. I ask what you'd like to be different, and what you want me to know about how to talk with you: the name you use, your pronouns and what you'd rather skip. I explain privacy and its limits, and what I can and can't do.
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Step 3: After
We decide together whether to meet again and how often. You can change your mind at any point, and you don't owe me a reason.
What you do not have to do
Tell your whole story
Say what you want to say. The rest can wait.
Explain or defend your identity
I'm not here to test it.
Be out to anyone
I don't contact anyone, and I send nothing to your home unless you ask.
Decide anything on the spot
You can think about it and write to me later.
Questions
About the first session
Can I bring someone with me?
Yes, if you want to. We'll talk about it before the session so I know what you'd like them to hear.
What should I wear or bring?
Whatever is comfortable. For video, bring a private place and headphones if you have them.
What if I'm nervous?
Most people are. You can say so, and we'll start slowly.
Ready to write?
A few words is enough. I reply on weekdays.